💖 How to Have a Romantic Triad Polyamorous Wedding

1. ✨ Decide on the Type of Ceremony

Since most places don’t legally recognize three-person marriages, many poly triads choose a symbolic wedding ceremony — and that doesn’t make it any less real.

• Option 1: One legal marriage + symbolic vows with the third partner

• Option 2: All symbolic – a personalized commitment ceremony for all three

• Option 3: Two ceremonies – one legal and one for the triad

Tip: Make the ceremony about your bond, not legal status. This is your day.

2. 💍 Create Inclusive Vows

Write your vows as a group and/or individually. You might say:

• Group vows: What you all promise to each other as a unit

• Individual vows: What each person promises to the other two

• Shared values: Speak to the core of your triad dynamic — trust, communication, loyalty, joy

3. 👗👔👗 Choose Attire That Reflects All of You

Coordinate outfits in a way that makes everyone feel equally seen — whether you're going formal, whimsical, or themed. You could:

• Match colors or fabrics

• Wear symbols that connect you (matching rings, pins, or embroidery)

• Walk down the aisle together, or take turns with unique entrances

4. 🌸 Design a Ceremony Structure That Flows

Plan a ceremony that’s balanced and meaningful for all three of you. You could include:

• A unity ritual for three (like a sand blending with three colors or a candle-lighting)

• A triangle ring exchange or group handfasting

• Each person saying vows to both of their partners, or rotating moments of focus

5. 🥂 Plan the Celebration You Deserve

Don’t be afraid to break tradition. Want one cake? Three cakes? A fairy-tale garden party or a low-key beach vow exchange? Go for what feels most you.

Other sweet touches:

• A group dance instead of a couple's first dance

• A ceremony circle where all guests surround you

• A trio toast from each partner

6. 💌 Communicate with Guests Gently & Clearly

Some guests may be unfamiliar with polyamory, so help set the tone:

• Include a loving explanation in your invites or website

• Offer a simple ceremony program that explains the format

• Lead with love — it’s a celebration of connection, not a debate

7. 📸 Capture the Moments That Matter

Let your photographer know your dynamics ahead of time so they can capture:

• Candid shots of your interactions

• Posed trio portraits

• Individual moments with each partner — and with all three together

💫 Final Thoughts:

A triad wedding is about honoring your unique love story — not mimicking a traditional template. Whether your day is wild and whimsical or quiet and deeply spiritual, what matters most is that all three of you feel equally valued, seen, and celebrated.

Love comes in many shapes. Yours just happens to be a beautiful triangle. 💖🔺